Ops hardening plus two rules gaps close (rev 13)

Operational: auto-reboot for kernel patches (09:30 UTC), Caddy access
logs at /var/lib/caddy (self-rotating; the sandbox denies /var/log),
logrotate for the backup log, a restore drill proving a Spaces snapshot
boots 56/56 rooms clean, the about page's plain sentence on permanent
recording, and /wizwar-pulse to read it all weekly.

Rules: safes now smash — attacks aimed at the box accumulate on it and
the fifteenth point bursts it (widening, ungated). And SLOW DEATH's
bites pause for a victim holding an ABSORB — the card named by the FAQ,
not Absorb Spell — each soaking exactly one point, rev-gated at 13 with
the instant-bite legacy pinned. Bots weigh the soak against their life.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_015RCWSTnb1KYTPyL4GmhGnF

packages/server/src/rooms.ts

@@ -390,6 +390,7 @@ function actingSeat(room: Room): PlayerId | null {
   if (!s || s.phase !== "playing") return null;
   return (
     s.wardPending?.ownerId ??
+    s.slowDeathPending?.playerId ??
     s.stack?.waitingOn ??
     s.pendingDiscard ??
     s.chaosPending?.queue[0] ??