Review decisions outrank the queue; stop waiting on OUR name for a heading

Two bugs behind one failure. Dungeons & Dragons timed out waiting for a
dialog heading matching our stored name — but BGG 140509's primary name
is "Dragones Y Mazmorras"; we matched it through an ALTERNATE name, so
that heading never appears. The add flow now waits for the Own checkbox
(the form itself) instead: /boardgame/<id>/ already establishes which
game the page is.

And the job should not have run at all. to_add.csv is a snapshot from
the last diff, so any review decision taken afterwards — local,
rejected, wrong-match — was invisible to upload. run_upload now
cross-checks every queued job against the CURRENT matches.csv and skips
those it no longer endorses, naming each and pointing at diff. When
matches.csv is absent or empty it condemns nothing: absence is not a
verdict.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_016jXZFSTZQKzAC8fqpWSz9g

data/upload_log.csv

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 add,380837,,Botany,650545,,added,2026-08-06T02:50:00+00:00,
 add,393672,,Gloomhaven: Buttons & Bugs,669782,,failed,2026-08-06T02:50:07+00:00,RuntimeError: 'Gloomhaven: Buttons & Bugs (English edition) (2024)' was listed a moment ago but vanished on the second pass — retryable
 add,14535,,SPANC: Space Pirate Amazon Ninja Catgirls,29075,,added,2026-08-06T02:50:15+00:00,
+add,255984,,Sleeping Gods,701034,,added,2026-08-06T02:54:05+00:00,
+add,393672,,Gloomhaven: Buttons & Bugs,669782,,added,2026-08-06T02:54:12+00:00,
+add,9666,,Greed Quest,215137,,added,2026-08-06T02:54:19+00:00,
+add,40508,,Scrabble Slam!,644326,,added,2026-08-06T02:54:27+00:00,
+add,3181,,Farkle,87931,,added,2026-08-06T02:54:36+00:00,
+add,193485,,Dastardly Dirigibles,300446,,added,2026-08-06T02:54:54+00:00,
+add,226065,,Sheriff of Nottingham: Merry Men,353389,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:01+00:00,
+add,143884,,Machi Koro,453051,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:09+00:00,
+add,358880,,Etherfields: Kittenburg Expansion,603694,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:15+00:00,
+add,432858,,Artistry,734890,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:21+00:00,
+add,417060,,Botany: Tantalizing Trees,706506,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:27+00:00,
+add,417064,,Botany: Perilous Perfumes,706510,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:33+00:00,
+add,161928,,Utter Nonsense,,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:40+00:00,
+add,50381,,Cards Against Humanity,,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:44+00:00,
+add,1269,,Skip-Bo,,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:50+00:00,
+add,202982,,Scrawl,,,added,2026-08-06T02:55:56+00:00,
+add,195314,,Herbaceous,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:02+00:00,
+add,320202,,Dragon Land,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:07+00:00,
+add,2452,,Jenga,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:12+00:00,
+add,42063,,Code Master,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:18+00:00,
+add,340420,,Throw Throw Avocado,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:23+00:00,
+add,1260,,Rook,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:28+00:00,
+add,116,,Guillotine,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:34+00:00,
+add,169124,,Flick 'em Up!,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:40+00:00,
+add,20866,,The Rocky Horror Trivia Game,,,added,2026-08-06T02:56:45+00:00,
+add,269564,,Captain Marvel: Secret Skrulls,,,added,2026-08-06T02:57:37+00:00,
+add,18755,,Pie Face!,,,added,2026-08-06T02:57:41+00:00,
+add,140509,,Dungeons & Dragons,,,failed,2026-08-06T02:58:01+00:00,"TimeoutError: Locator.wait_for: Timeout 15000ms exceeded. Call log: - waiting for get_by_role(""dialog"").get_by_role(""heading"", name=re.compile(r""Dungeons\ \&\ Dragons"", re.IGNORECASE)) to be visible"
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+add,362205,,Sleeping Gods: Primeval Peril,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:11+00:00,
+add,453845,,Murder at the Manor,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:16+00:00,
+add,329230,,Bluffaneer,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:20+00:00,
+add,358320,,Sleeping Gods: Distant Skies,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:26+00:00,
+add,389113,,Rivals,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:31+00:00,
+add,324937,,Wiz-War (9th Edition),,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:35+00:00,
+add,295770,,Frosthaven,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:40+00:00,
+add,174430,,Gloomhaven,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:46+00:00,
+add,442312,,Deadly Doodles,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:51+00:00,
+add,332398,,Everdell: The Complete Collection,,,added,2026-08-06T02:58:56+00:00,
+add,334065,,Verdant,,,added,2026-08-06T02:59:01+00:00,
+add,283155,,Calico,,,added,2026-08-06T02:59:06+00:00,
+add,291457,,Gloomhaven: Jaws of the Lion,,,added,2026-08-06T02:59:12+00:00,
+add,150925,,Hold Your Breath!,,,added,2026-08-06T02:59:18+00:00,
+add,2980,,The Simpsons Trivia Game,,,added,2026-08-06T02:59:23+00:00,
+add,1197,,Blink,,,added,2026-08-06T02:59:29+00:00,